Love and light in relationships. Do you give up or continue? Something inside you pushes you to grab at the littlest hope and energy that your partner will feel it and come back. You block all the signs early in hopes that a healthy loving heart changes who they are. That life shows you what movies and songs are written about. Then we wonder if I could be the lucky one in all this world that people look on in envy that I have a relationship that I never had. We are all destine for meeting our other half in life.
In love, we first need to write down what it is we need in a relationship. What they will give you in making you feel complete. This is your boundaries. Keep it with you.
Then release the past, no holding onto their energy. They may have been karmic or lessons. Cord cutting is one of the best things to do. Picture the other person. Light a candle and string from your heart to theirs. Always send love and light. Heartfelt wishing you to them wellness. NEVER pain or harm because this will come back and hurt you more. Then you picture yourself cutting the cord. Close your eyes, you will feel it coming off your body. You may have to redo if you are in contact or touch their stuff.
Now, this is the key thing. Ask your guides to take their energy off that does not serve you and to bring peace and harmony. To guide you to the path of the chosen one. That you feel in your heart and mind and was destined to be with on your journey.
In life, your guides send you people to show you lessons. There is always something you need to learn in this lifetime. Sometimes we ignore what we are meant to do, but our mind it tell us to let go. We stay because of the years or children. Our heart tells us to stay. We do not move from the relationship in fear of abandonment or other peoples thoughts. We have felt judged all our life. Or we are too far from moving forward alone that, finding the strength to see another side of it and losing all that we have built is too much heartache. Nobody wants to stand alone and rebuild. You have done this time and time again. You are strong. Your first love was the hardest on your soul because the energy was intense, but you survived. Go back and remember how strong you were.
If you see your ex somewhere, you should feel calm. If you feel excitement, your energy has not let go. This is a clear sign. You need to let them go. The reason is that you are not their person. The person for you is waiting around the corner.
If you take your energy and clear it all it's like a bat signal in the sky. You are sending your one, and saying I am ready. The hardest part is divine timing, but please remember we get upset because we want it now. Your person may not be ready or fighting to get out of a situation. That saying where can you be or timing is everything. Sit quietly and feel them as you can with your energy. They can feel it. Its that feeling that comes over you and makes you feel peaceful inside and a smile comes across your face.
If you dream or have day images about that person or someone you never met. Your guides are telling you something. Either to not let go and work your way to that person again. Or to let go and heal the new person is shown to you. You will pick up the energy. Your stomach goes like butterflies. When you think of them and you feel enlighten they are the one. If you feel weighted down and past memories of pain they are not.
If they are in another relationship. Coming in and destroying it will only make your journey harder. You have to release them. Like fishing, you release and catch. Why because that fish could not feed your family or was not full-grown. Same scenario, release and wait in that water to catch your person. If your person is in another relationship maybe a lesson is need for them to learn so they can grow and be stronger for you.
We all learn at different paces. If you are struggling hard and cannot separate, contact me. I will show you and walk you through. With Reiki, I will take off what is not serving you anymore and clear your energy. Especially if you have met a narcissist, they will attack your Sacral Chakra. That instinct that allows you to make judgments. Remember that saying my stomach is telling me not to. It's the biggest part of the intuition journey.
Please remember that everyone deserves to be loved. It's hard to balance our past with the present. People like myself and other healers can balance you to open you to a more clearer view ahead. We also come with experience. Everyone in this world has had a loss of love. Look around. You are not alone. Come visit. Take that first step in healing.
Hugs sending you love & light.
Connie T.
Thought: Remember each new person is learning you. Understanding you, they do not deserve to feel the impact of a previous love in your life. They have done nothing wrong and are not the same as everyone else. If you start off without trust, you put that negative energy already into your relationship.
Always treat someone new and if you cannot, then you need to rethink your past and start to heal. Or change the type of person you are allowing into our life. Do they have the same pattern that I am attracted to and why am I attracted to that same kind of person.
People deserve to get to know you and love you. Allow them to have a chance.
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